10 Back to School Tips for Parents

1st Sep, 2023

Starting back to school can be an exciting yet nerve-wrecking time for any child, but for adopted children, the experience might come with unique challenges and emotions. As a parent, you play a vital role in supporting your child’s transition back to school. Here are 10 valuable tips to ensure a smooth and positive start to the school year.

 

Open Communication

Foster open and honest communications about school, addressing any worries or concerns your child might have. Create a safe space for them to express their feelings and ask questions.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Establish Routines

Consistent routines provide a sense of security. Set up a regular schedule for mornings, evenings and study time. We know this is easier said than done but predictability helps your child feel more in control and settled.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Explore Learning Styles

Identify how your child learns best – whether they are visual learners who benefit from diagrams and pictures, auditory learners who thrive through spoken explanations, or kinaesthetic learners who learn by doing.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Address Bullying and Teasing

Talk to your child about potential challenges like bullying. Equip them with strategies to handle bullying and teasing, encouraging them to assertively but calming express their feelings, set boundaries, and seek help from teachers or adults when necessary.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Collaborate with other Parents

Connect with fellow parents, both those with adopted children and others. Joining parent support groups or attending school-related events can help you build a network of understanding individuals who can offer advice and encouragement.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Encourage Friendships

Creating meaningful friendships is essential for your child’s sense of belonging and social development. Help your child by arranging/hosting playdates and encouraging participating in extra-curricular activities aligned with their interests such as trying out for a sports team or joining the school choir.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Plan Healthy Meals and Snacks

Proper nutrition is vital for optimal school performance. Pack balanced meals and snacks that include proteins, whole grains, fruits and vegetables. These foods provide sustained energy levels and support cognitive function.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Support Emotional Regulation

Equip your child with emotional coping strategies. Teach them deep breathing techniques, mindfulness exercises, or provide them with a ‘calm down’ kit filled with items that help them manage stress or anxiety.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Celebrate Achievements

Acknowledge and celebrate your child’s academic and personal achievements, no matter how small! Positive reinforcement boosts their self-esteem and motivation.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Practice Patience

Understand that adjusting to school can be a gradual process, especially for adopted children. Be patient and offer reassurance as they navigate new experiences. Celebrate small victories and provide emotional support during any challenging times.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Back to school time is chance for your child to embrace new experiences, learn and grow. By implementing these tips, you will create a supportive environment that helps your child thrive academically, emotionally, and socially. Remember, your role as a parent is pivotal in guiding your child through this exciting journey.